So funny how people always ask me the same question which I love to consider the “MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION”… “Why is a guy like you single”… well I have pondered on posting this and the reason why… but fuck it I think its time and not only that but I think I have gotten to a point in my life where its all about ME…. And I can pretty much post up ANY THING I want to say about MY LIFE… I have been through hell and back and seen so much and I honestly feel I can say what Im about to say in this blog because of my own personal self worth… again, this is MY personal perception on my preference and what makes me happy… if you or anybody feel its too much or you don’t agree… guess what…FUCK U… its my fucken life and if you know me, then you know that I’ve always been about following your true happiness…this is mine…
So with that, here it is… reason why I have been single and if I get into a relationship, reason why my relationships don’t last, or if I do remain single why I stay single for so long…
Well first off, I am a MAN of high expectations, and you know what many people might say that in the game of love you cant have high expectations but you know what I say… FUCK U… I deserve to have high expectations because of what I offer and bring to the table in a relationship… and again, you might not know in detail and in depth of what I’ve been through that has gotten me to this point in my life where I can say things like this and have my high expectations… why, simply because I am NOT going to settle for some piece of shit guy to come up into my life and fuck it up… cuz trust me I have had MANY situations where guys were NEVER worth my time and they proved it to me… they turned out to be pieces of shit and proved to me that all they were worth was a good piece of ass or bullshit… nothing more.
So yes, I have the fucken right to say I deserve the best and deserve a guy who has not only a cute face a nice ass but also values, self respect, morals, a future, and comes from a good family… coming from a good family has always meant something really big because it’s a reflection on them and who they are… in which I have NOT yet found obviously, relationship after relationship its been for me… one thing or another that doesn’t seem to work out… and ya may say or think well if its relationship after relationship then maybe its me…na, for those gay guys out here in LA that know what the dating scene is about ya know what im talking about… its about the guys out here aint worth SHIT… trust me I know I have been dating out here in the LA area for over 15 years and still havent found my PERFECT BOYFRIEND, have come close but obviously not close enough… so, when people ask me “why is a guy like you single” I smile and simply tell them I prefer being single and HAPPY then taken and miserable with someone who isn’t compatible with me or simply NOT WORTH MY TIME…
I have ALWAYS been upfront and straight up with guys I date about my “high expectations” I don’t like to hide it or keep it a secret… I hate for a guy to waste my time and later down the road find out they don’t stand up to my expectations… sorry just me… so I put it all out on the table the minute I see that it has potential to go into something serious… I let them mothaphukers know what I’m about and that I expect A LOT out of a relationship… most of the times they stick around and sometimes they don’t… but its all good for those that do I eventually get to the point where they don’t hold up to my expectations and I easily cut them off and move on… simple as that… I don’t have time to waste time… ya feel me… I think its pointless and really stupid to front about who you are…just be straight up about yo shit… put all the bad shit out on the table, why wait for a couple of months or even years to go by for them to see who you really are… fuck that… its about telling a guy or someone you just met that seems to have potential of a relationship of who you really are…at least that’s the way I think it should be… guys that come across my way know that I say who I truly am from the get go… I don’t front and if they are willing to go for it after the “warning” lol…then fuck it lets see if they last… sad but true… that’s the way I do it and that’s the way I see it… no if’s or but’s…
To this day, most of my X’s can say that I have been there best… how do I know, because I still talk to them… and to this day they are either still in love with me or still hold that space in there heart… why, why the fuck do you think… because I am ONE IN A BILLION… I’m NOTHING like what you see out there… some fucken piece of shit guy with no goals or no motivation and thrive… I have lots to give, love, affections, romance, knowledge, intelligence, good humor, great conversations, a man with substance and fuck it… I have never been a cocky mothaphuka but a good looking guy on top of all that… I have NEVER been a MAN to be full of himself because I consider myself very humble and genuine but GODDAMMIT I know I’m a good looking guy beyond the body and looks… its about what’s inside too… I also know where I have been and all that I’ve been through has made me the MAN I am today and know that what I look for in a guy is only what I deserve… THE BEST… but again it’s the hardest to find… guys now a days don’t seem to understand that and don’t seem to have the values and substance I am looking for… so I guess I continue to be DADDYHEXXX until I do find “the one” which I know he’s out there… never giving up on love… because I know its out there…
But just so ya know and have an idea of how crazy my expectations are…here are a few things of does and don’t’s and what I like in a guy…
What I like in a guy and what I expect for a guy to have or be like if I have an interest:
PHYSICAL:
1. Must be cute
2.Must be smaller meaning thin
3. Signs of masculinity is a HUGE TURN OFF
4. Must not be taller then me, I'm 5'9 (negotiable)
5. A hairy ass is a HUGE TURN OFF
6.Body hair, depends how hairy and where, hairy chest is koo as long as it’s a little, legs and arms is koo
7.Can’t be older then me
8.Tattos are koo as long as it not too many
9.Small waist is A MUST
10. MUST and I repeat MUST have a bubble or nice ass… flat is A HUGE TURN OFF
11. Must NOT have a bigger dick then me (I'm a 9) KEEPIN IT REAL
PERSONALITY:
1.Must be VERY affectionate MUUUUUST
2. Must be catering
3. Must be loving
4. Must be honest
5. Humorous is a HUGE PLUS
6. Must be attentive
7. Must have A LOT of the same interests
8. Must know how to cook
9. Must be clean
10. Must be the “wifey” type
11. Must be total bottom, FUCK VERSATILES
12. Must be fun to party with
13. Must be respectful of himself and of his MAN (ME)
14. Must be dedicated to the relationship
15. NO DRUGS
16. Must be VERY open in the bedroom
17. Must have patience for my big ass temper lol
18. Must be able to balance me out IM A HOT HEAD
19. Family oriented (depends)
20. Prefer a religious focused guy… (depends)
21. Need a guy who will let me take FULL control of the relationship
22. I need a guy who can appreciate the romantic/sweet things I can do
23. MUST be able to handle my high-maintenance personality (require A LOT of attention)
23. I NEED A GUY WHO WILL MAKE ME FEEL LIKE THE MAN I KNOW I AM!!!
OTHER:
1. Must NOT SMOKE (HUGE TURN OFF)
Some day… Some day... Until then, my right had has been just fine!!!
